Think Positive

Sometimes life doesn't go our way, it seems all bad things occurs to us... we lost everything, strange things happens to us and our emotional feelings are messed up!

What I discover is that martyr ourselves doesn't help at all... what we need to do is shake our life, starting doing new things, rediscover people, that we know for a long time and we didn't gave them the importance and the afect they deserve.

One thing I did and it worked very well for me... was that I told myself that I will never get angry or mad or even pist-off with no one and with nothing bad that might happen to me and i'm always trying to get something positive from everything... even negatives things.

I have plenty of situations that this attitude helped me...for example a very funny situation when I lost (thought) my wallet with some money and all my cards and some things with emotional value... and the funnier thing was that I discover that I had lost my wallet when I was going to pay a coffe... and had no money... loool.

What I've done... just laugh... and laugh... and laugh...
I was going home with a big smile and thinking "why i'm so happy? I just lost my wallet"
Positive thing when you lost your wallet... you will have new cards!! :D

Believe it or not... was enought for me... to not get mad or stay angry!!

One week later... I was looking for my cellphone... and what i found!?!? MY WALLET!!!

In conclusion.. I think we just need to take the positive things of life... do not worry about negative things... almost all situations have a positive side, even if you think that your current situation dont have one you just have to find it!!

Joy of Small things

We are so busy in our everyday work that we take for granted all that we have, when we eat drink or breath, we are thinking only about the future, and what we are going to do then, but we waste the precious moment we have in hand. The bigger level of joy comes from small things in life, but we are too busy to take notice of that.

Small things like enjoying the food we eat, enjoy the nature around us, and enjoy the rain or the smell of a flower. There are times when you eat great food, but do not enjoy the taste because the mind is else where. These things are very simple and may sound very funny, but if all minds are set free and you tried doing any of the above, you will feel true joy in life. When you give something to someone only to see a smile on the persons face will give you great amount of joy.

If we take some time to notice the feeling in small things of life, we will understand what joy is all about. We have enough to do in life with our plate full with loads of work. But we must take a moment in everyday life to see and enjoy the small things, feelings, gestures we get and give everyone, and we should appreciate these things to live life to the fullest.

The Story

Once there was a young man who proclaimed to have the most beautiful, flawless heart. An old man challenged him. The crowd looked at the old man’s heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars. Some pieces had been removed and others had been put in, but didn’t fit quite right. The old man looked at the young man, “I would never trade my heart for yours. Every scar represents a person I’ve given my love -- I tear out a piece and give it to them. Sometimes they give me a piece of their broken heart, which I fit along jagged edges. When the person doesn’t return my love, a painful gouge is left. Those gouges stay open, reminding me that I love these people too. Perhaps someday they will return and fill that space.”

We all know that emotions are a vital part of the way we are made. Yet we can’t understand why it takes so long to heal from emotional injuries.

What I know is that all people have this scars... this empty spaces in our hearts... we just have to try fulfill these spaces the best we can... with new friends, new sights and especially looking for the good things in life.

Why our mind can't control our heart

This is a question that im trying to found an answer... for long time...



Maybe because we are stupid animals that like to feel pain or maybe because life would be boring if that happen, i dont know... What I know is that you can't be hoping forever... you can't stop living your life because someone dont like you the same way you like her, because other things will not wait for you... I recently understood that... and of course are days better then others but after I understand that my life became so much easier.


Heart or mind... you can't leave just with one.. that's why even if you think that you will suffer... never denied or reject your love for someone... because after all love is such a good and Beautiful feeling...

Intentions

These days have been so fcking dificult to me i'm "working" 13 hours per day and there are so many things that are not going on my way... but it's life... I call it a litle training for what I will do next year!


I think that we do all things with a purpose no matter what we done we always have some secundary intention... that can sound bad.. but if we reflect... it's the fcking true...

We are not children anymore that play with each other just because they feel good doing that...

I'm doing this 13 hours marathon per day because next year i want to go to the university in Oporto, change my life, meeting new people, get a degree and especially be happy...

I talked about professional side... if you look to our personal side the same happen... its just a game... and the best players on it always seems to win... I have to say that i'm not a good player, unfortunly... someone can think... but i don't think like that... and maybe because of that I lost some of the most important races of life... but i'd like to think that in years to came i will be reward because of that attitude... at least i hope so...


"There are only two forces in the world, the sword and the spirit. In the long run the sword will always be conquered by the spirit.” - Napoleon Bonaparte

We must have a great spirit to pass trought tought times... because with swords we will get always conquered and destroyed...